Does your girlfriend wear a ratty old T-shirt of yours to bed every night? Do you want her to look sexy in the bedroom? Are you looking to spice up your sex life? Then it’s time to go lingerie shopping for her and surprise her with a sexy little number. But before you head to your nearest adult sex shop to find some crotch-less panties, think about what she would like to wear in order to feel sexy. Believe it or not – what constitutes sexy lingerie to you and her might differ dramatically!
Lingerie And Your Sex Life
Lingerie seems like too simple a solution to boredom in the bedroom, doesn’t it? If you and your partner’s love life has become stale and boring, you probably think that you’re going to need a lot more help than simply buying new underwear, right? Well, you would be surprised at what a difference a nice piece of lingerie can make.
Lingerie makes women feel sexy and women who feel sexy are more interested in having sex than those who feel unattractive. When your girlfriend knows she looks good in and out of her clothes, you are one lucky guy because she’ll want to show off her hot lingerie to you at any given opportunity. Don’t underestimate the power of sexy underwear. After all, women’s underwear and lingerie is a billion-dollar industry!
Lingerie From A Guy’s Perspective
When lingerie is marketed at men, it’s all about covering as little skin as possible. The color range is usually black or red, and is catered towards men’s most base tastes in what looks good. This means that when guys are looking for lingerie for their girlfriends, they tend to look at anything black, red, low-cut or lacy without any regard for what might look good on their partners or what their partners would feel comfortable in.
The first thing you have to remember is that women don’t want to look like strippers or sex workers in the bedroom. Unless you’ve got some kinky role-playing game happening, lingerie shouldn’t be all about latex, hot pink or red colors and fishnet stockings. It should be soft, silky, flowing and attractive. It does not have to be about showing off as much skin as possible – leave that to strippers who earn their living that way. For example, rather than getting your girlfriend the smallest thong you can find, consider getting her sheer pajama pants. She’ll feel more comfortable wearing them around the house, but they’re still sexy because they are see-through. That means that she gets to feel covered up and you get to feel turned on!
Now that you’ve decided to go out on a limb and buy her some lingeries, there are a few things that you need to know in order to really please her so that she feels sexy and is really to rumble in the bedroom.
This is one of the most important things to keep in mind when buying lingerie for her. You do not want to come home with a sexy teddy that’s too cup sizes too big! She’ll think you are wishing she had bigger breasts! Before you go out shopping, take a sneak peak in her closet and find out what size she is. Look at her bra and her underwear and take those measurements into the store with you when you go shopping. Chances are good that when the female salesclerk sees you walk into the lingerie shop with those “deer-in-the-headlights look on your face”, she’ll immediately offer her assistance. Tell her your girlfriend’s size and she’ll be able to point you in the right direction.
Before you go out shopping, make sure you realize that the price of good lingerie may surprise you. Don’t go to the store with a $20 in your pocket, thinking you’ll come back with a 6-pack of thongs. Being cheap with buying lingerie is just asking for trouble. The last thing you want is for her to try it on only to have the seams split along the side of it! Instead, look for high quality silks and satins because they feel smooth and sexy and are breathable. Also, if you are choosing matching underwear for a teddy, make sure that they are cotton lined for comfort. Not every square inch of the garment needs to be made of silk or satin or lace.
Next to getting her the right size, the style is the most important feature of any lingerie. You want her to feel both comfortable and sexy, so take that into account when getting help from the salesclerk. If you know that your girl is paranoid about certain parts of her body, don’t highlight them. For example, if she thinks that she has really fat thighs, don’t buy her lingerie that has really high cut legs. She’ll never wear it and will be mad at you for making her look fat. Her body type really matters when deciding on different types of lingerie.
When choosing lingerie, remember that really sexy lingerie comes in a variety of colors, many of which are usually demure and flattering rather than loud and tacky. Not all women look good in red and black can be too serious. White can make her look pale and pasty, so ask the salesclerk for suggestions on other colors by describing your partner’s looks to her. Another good idea is to look in your girl’s closet before going shopping. See what her favorite colors are based on her clothes and then choose lingerie in the same family.
If you can’t remember all of these tips the next time you are in a shop looking for lingerie, then just remember this basic rule: if you saw a stripper wearing it at the last strip club you were at, then leave it at the store!