Group Sex Success

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It’s what all men dream of, but what few make a successful reality. Imagine one man, two women (or three, or four…), and one evening of mind-blowing sexual adventure. Sounds like a recipe for utter bliss in the bedroom doesn’t it? Sure – but what few people realize is that there are a few general unspoken rules of group sex that must be followed in order to make the dream a successful reality. Disregard of these simple principles will turn a group sex engagement from good to bad, which is awful, awful shame and something that can be avoided with some care and consideration. So before you dream on… read on, and take these secrets to heart.

Approximately one third of all men and women will engage in a group sex experience during their lifetime. Sometimes it is an event they dream of and seek to make a reality. For others, it’s about being in the right place at the right time. Although it sounds like the best planned or unplanned event that may occur ever, there is a sticky side to the situation as well. When bodies and minds getting all tangled together in a sticky situation, temperatures can rise and cause more harm than good. Furthermore, there is a strong association between risky group behavior and alcohol consumption, which can sometimes lead to confusion, disorientation or poor decision making. However, with some forethought you can avoid the potential bad consequences of a group sex engagement gone and focus on all the pleasurable benefits of the experience.

The first key to ensuring success when it comes to group sex is attention to detail. When the opportunity presents itself to involve two or more partners in bed, some careful decision-making needs to be made on your part. The questions that you must ask yourself are as follows: are these the right people to enjoy the experience with? Is this an appropriate place for the risky sexual encounter? And finally, is this an appropriate moment in time for a group sex engagement? Of course, in the heat of the moment, you will likely consider the answers to these questions to be Yes! Yes! Yes! But pay attention to detail and you will recognize some of the risks that may be associated with all the fun.

First and foremost, if one of the women in the group is your girlfriend or partner, you must make sure that she is genuinely interested in the encounter (and not just really drunk and looking to please you. Secondly, if the other women in the potential party are close friends of yours or hers, the consequences of a sexual adventure gone wrong become somewhat more serious. Both men and women who engage in group sex engagements report that one night of risky adventure ended long term friendships with the other people involved. Your safest bet is to enlist parties who are not your closest friends, thus decreasing this risk. It is also easier to engage in an group sex adventure when all the parties involved are single.

When it comes to decision-making about the venue for the engagement, often spontaneity and convenience are the determining factors. But before commencing your journey of sexual delight, consider doing it at as neutral a location as possible. A hotel room is perfect. A room in your girlfriend’s dorm is not. You own place is not a bad option – but then you are faced with the added pressure of playing “host” for the evening, and you lose the option of picking up and leaving once you have had your fill. Don’t forget to also consider the timing of your event… Is there any risk of a family member, roommate, landlord, or tenant walking in on your group fun at an inopportune time? Discretion needs to be maintained – so make sure that your venue includes privacy and a lock on the door.

The second main issue when it comes to a successful encounter is safety. Now matter how excited or aroused you may be by the opportunity, you must make sure it is a safe one in order for it to be a success. No need for a lecture here – I think we all know when to wrap, unwrap and re-wrap the manhood in question. However, you can also “play it safe” in other ways as well. You want to create an open and sharing mood for the encounter, so make sure to recognize everyone’s needs, feelings and desires. Maybe the shyer girl in the party is being ignored or un appreciated. Maybe everyone has had a turn except one person, who gets lost in the steamy shuffle… The way to avoid someone’s feelings getting hurt and prevent the engagement from going awry is up to you, so make sure to share with everyone who is willing, and chances are your sexual adventure will be a success.

Maybe it’s too late, or all your efforts to ensure a successful group encounter failed miserably – how can you recover from the experience and maintain hope for the fantasy in the future? Depending on the complications and parties involved, you may have to remove yourself from the situation for an indefinite period of time. If your friends or girlfriend are upset with you, they likely just need some time to cool off. However, you must realistically assess the damage done. Were you caught in a threesome with two other ladies in your girlfriend’s apartment? Did you offend your best buddy by obviously hitting it off (and hitting it home!) with his lady during some risky group playtime?

These wounds may take some serious time to heal, or they may never really resolve themselves. The best thing to do is to trust your own instincts and know when to walk away. There are other friends and lovers out there and plenty of other people to involve in adventurous group sex. So cut your losses and do your best to assess the risks and avoid problems the next time the opportunity arises.

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