Pros & Cons Of Threesome Sex Positions

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This article is going to help you branch out a bit from the norm by giving you the pros and cons of threesome sex positions. Read more to find out if group sex is something in your future.

What are Threesome Sex Positions?

Unlike couple sex positions, there’s not as much information out there about what positions to engage in if you are participating in threesomes. But, don’t fear – there are lots of exciting positions for threesomes. They can vary depending on whether there are two women and one man involved or the reverse. Here are a few variations. Following this list, the pros and cons of threesome positions are discussed.

Two Women, One Man

When there’s only one man in the picture, then he needs to judge his time and positioning carefully to make sure that he’s enough man for two women. To ensure that he lasts, it’s a good idea to spend some time on oral pleasure. While the man pleasures one woman, the other woman can watch and masturbate or she can jump in and help pleasure the other woman by massaging her breasts, for example.

Or, while the man is having sex with one of the women, the other women can get involved too. She can bring in vibrators or dildos into the mix and, if the man is interested in anal sex, she can use those toys to have sex with him while he has sex with the first woman. Or, for men who like to watch, encourage the two women to get it on. They can tire each other out for a while and you can watch. Then, when the excitement is too much to bear, he can join in for some fun too.

Another good position for two women and one man is to have the women 69ing each other while at the edge of the bed. The man can then enter the woman who is on top from behind, either vaginally or anally.

Two Men, One Woman

Too often, people are afraid of the two men & one woman combination. This might be because straight men are afraid of seeing each other naked and being in close bodily contact with each other during sex. Whatever the reason, men should get over this insecurity and enjoy the pleasures that this type of threesome can bring. A popular position for two men and one woman is to have the woman in the middle while one man enters her vaginally and the other enters her anally.

Another position involving two men and one woman has one man lying on his back on the bed while the woman straddles him with her back facing him. The other man is standing in front of her and from this position she can give him a blowjob. Or, the woman can be on her hands and knees on the bed while one man enters her mouth and the other her vagina.

Getting Started with Threesome Positions

I’m sure that all of these variations sound exciting to the average guy but getting started with threesome positions is the tricky part. First, if you are in a relationship, you will have to find out if your partner is interested in this. If yes, then you are confronted with the second obstacle – finding a third party to join in the fun.

Do you want a guy or a girl? Do you want a friend or a stranger to join in? You and your partner will have to discuss these options before any group activity takes place.

Cons

As exciting as threesomes can be, they also have cons. Here are some of them:

  • Getting started is hard because threesome sex is not an accepted practice among most couples. If people engage in threesome sex, they tend to keep this secret because they don’t want people finding out.
  • It can ruin relationships. If you and your partner agree to get a third party involved and then one of you ends up hating it and regretting that decision, you might run into some serious relationship trouble.
  • It often seems like a good idea in fantasies but when it comes to actually enacting your fantasies, it can be awkward at best. In reality, you have to worry about STDs, hurt feelings and many other things too.

Pros

If you can get past the potential relationship problems that can arise, threesome positions can be a good way for couples to find new ways of exploring their relationship. Check out the pros for yourself:

  • It’s the stuff that fantasies are made of. Whether you prefer two-men & one-woman positions or the reverse, you can live out all of the porno fantasies that you’ve been harboring since high school.
  • You can learn new positions that will help your relationship with your partner. By introducing new positions and an extra person into your bedroom, you might be surprised at how much excitement and fun this will create for you and your partner.
  • By allowing each other to experience threesomes, you might in fact be saving your relationship. If your partner, for example, is having trouble staying monogamous, a threesome might be the perfect solution because it allows you to share in group sex in each other’s presence.

Give it a try and you won’t regret it

Threesomes can be difficult to organize but if you can figure out the details, then you might be in for the time of your life. Before you engage in any group action though, make sure you play it safe both emotionally and physically. Make sure you have safe sex always and that you and your partner have agreed to the activity before you bring home that extra body!

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