Taking Stock Of Your Sex Life: Keeping Sexy Memories Alive

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Every man remembers his favorite lover, whether she was the most beautiful, the craziest in bed, or just the most naturally in tune with his needs and desires. Should you keep the memory of your past lovers alive or does the yearning for the past overwhelm future prospects when it comes to your sex life down the road? Most men and women agree that it is healthy and helpful to take regular stock of your sex life – in other words, to remember what you have done, as well as who! You can learn a great deal about yourself and your sexuality by taking a few small steps to document your sexy memories forever. The other advantage is that you can relive your sexual past, at least in your own mind, whenever you feel the urge…

There are a variety of ways to document your sex life so that you have a permanent record and reminder of your sexual past. The most obvious way is to keep a written record. This is not meant to be a list of conquests, but rather a tool to help you remember the people that you meet, and the things you did or did not like about them at the time. At an even more basic level, it may help you to remember womens’ names, so that when you run into them down the road, you look like the charming man who remembers them fondly! This also opens the door for you to resurrect old flames, who might enjoy a phone call down the road, and maybe a rekindling of the romance.

While many men may feel adverse to the idea, keeping a sexual journal is also a very good idea. In the journal, you would write down the details of your sexual encounters – for example “Tried (blank – insert sexy maneuver here!) with Stacey for the first time, and it drove her wild”, or “Melinda wanted me to do (blank) to her over and over again until she came.” This journal becomes a very intimate and personal record of all your sexual successes and failures (if there are any!) and can be very useful, as well as entertaining to re-read down the road.

The other reasons for maintaining a written record of your sexual experience are more serious, and slightly romantic. These reasons are mostly health related – say there is a chance that you were ever exposed to an STD, or that some crazy girl insists you knocked her up – your record of events may bring you the comfort and resolve to successfully manage any potential problems. In keeping with your written list or journals, you may also want to keep past love letters or notes. Lots of women enjoy sending men sexy notes – whether they be post-its on the mirror, and sexy lunchtime email messages. These are fun to keep as a record of the past, and can also be useful if the need to contact a woman again ever arises…

Besides keeping written records, there are also some more interesting and fun ways to document your sex life. For example, photographs. If you are lucky, there are women in your past who like having their picture taken. This may have been in conjunction with sexual encounters, or they may have just liked to provide you with some enjoyable viewing material.

Every man fantasizes about including a Polaroid or automatic camera in an evening of fun filled sexual adventure, so if you haven’t done so already – what’s stopping you? The only things you need are a picture-ready camera and a woman’s permission, this second factor being perhaps the most important. In fact, you may find that a large portion of women like the fact that you want to take pictures of them, as long as they trust you to treat the photos responsibly (i.e. not load them on the internet or show them to all of your buddies!). More so than love letters or a personal journal, photographs really can help you to relive your past sexual moments.

Every man remembers his favorite lover, whether she was the most beautiful, the craziest in bed, or just the most naturally in tune with his needs and desires. Should you keep the memory of your past lovers alive or does the yearning for the past overwhelm future prospects when it comes to your sex life down the road? Most men and women agree that it is healthy and helpful to take regular stock of your sex life – in other words, to remember what you have done, as well as who! You can learn a great deal about yourself and your sexuality by taking a few small steps to document your sexy memories forever. The other advantage is that you can relive your sexual past, at least in your own mind, whenever you feel the urge…

There are a variety of ways to document your sex life so that you have a permanent record and reminder of your sexual past. The most obvious way is to keep a written record. This is not meant to be a list of conquests, but rather a tool to help you remember the people that you meet, and the things you did or did not like about them at the time. At an even more basic level, it may help you to remember womens’ names, so that when you run into them down the road, you look like the charming man who remembers them fondly! This also opens the door for you to resurrect old flames, who might enjoy a phone call down the road, and maybe a rekindling of the romance.

While many men may feel adverse to the idea, keeping a sexual journal is also a very good idea. In the journal, you would write down the details of your sexual encounters – for example “Tried (blank – insert sexy maneuver here!) with Stacey for the first time, and it drove her wild”, or “Melinda wanted me to do (blank) to her over and over again until she came.” This journal becomes a very intimate and personal record of all your sexual successes and failures (if there are any!) and can be very useful, as well as entertaining to re-read down the road.

The other reasons for maintaining a written record of your sexual experience are more serious, and slightly romantic. These reasons are mostly health related – say there is a chance that you were ever exposed to an STD, or that some crazy girl insists you knocked her up – your record of events may bring you the comfort and resolve to successfully manage any potential problems. In keeping with your written list or journals, you may also want to keep past love letters or notes. Lots of women enjoy sending men sexy notes – whether they be post-its on the mirror, and sexy lunchtime email messages. These are fun to keep as a record of the past, and can also be useful if the need to contact a woman again ever arises…

Besides keeping written records, there are also some more interesting and fun ways to document your sex life. For example, photographs. If you are lucky, there are women in your past who like having their picture taken. This may have been in conjunction with sexual encounters, or they may have just liked to provide you with some enjoyable viewing material. Every man fantasizes about including a Polaroid or automatic camera in an evening of fun filled sexual adventure, so if you haven’t done so already – what’s stopping you? The only things you need are a picture-ready camera and a woman’s permission, this second factor being perhaps the most important. In fact, you may find that a large portion of women like the fact that you want to take pictures of them, as long as they trust you to treat the photos responsibly (i.e. not load them on the internet or show them to all of your buddies!). More so than love letters or a personal journal, photographs really can help you to relive your past sexual moments.

Along the same line, some men are even lucky enough to keep video clips or films of past lovers. Not everyone who produces sexy videos needs to be a Porn Film Director – in truth, there are likely as many amateur sex video producers and stars as there are professional ones, except that they keep their movie roles private! Maintaining a film collection of past lovers will make you the envy of every man you meet, just remember that the position also requires great responsibility. If you were to release a home video or clip or lose track of it, the star of the show may become more angry with you than you ever dreamed, and could potentially make your life a living hell. So, produce home videos at will, just remember to manage them wisely.

In the end, there are a variety of reasons for taking stock of your sex life. It helps you to keep track of your past sex life, which for romantic, personal, or even health reasons, is very important. It also provides you with a tool for self-reflection. Likely, as your sex life has progressed you have learned and experienced many new and exciting things. It is great to be able to have some perspective on everything that you have experienced – it will only make you an even better lover in the future.

Is there ever a time when you should stop documenting your sex life? Not really. Even if you move from a life of bachelorhood and adventure into a more serious, steady relationship with a woman, it is a good idea to maintain some record of your sex life. You never know, for example, if or when you might move on. On a more optimistic note, your sexual record with one woman in particular might be something that you share with her one day, and earn huge, huge bonus points! Further down the road, if you keep your records long enough, they might serve as inspiration to get your mojo back, whether is be as a bachelor, boyfriend or husband.

Keeping sexy memories alive will help to improve your sex life now and in the future. While it may seem like an effort at the start, the pay off will be large in the end, so grab a pen or a camera and start documenting the best part of your life, so that you can hold onto your favorite sexy memories forever.

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